well, today the opk is getting darker, closer to positive. i use the ovulation daily test strips and i almost always get a gradual increase so i can usually see the surge as it is getting closer. we did our first ai last night. will be doing another tonight, we plan on doing one every night until i'm sure i have ovulated. our donor is very very wonderful. he is a great guy. Most lesbian couples dont want a daddy in the baby's life, but we are looking forward to it. our baby will be luck to have two moms and a great dad in his/her life. lets hope that this month is the month! i have good feelings about it! Thanks tammy and aradia and everyone else that has been checking up on my cycle. you girls are like gold to us, friends i have never met but will keep close to my heart forever.